Damned if you do and damned if you don’t!
What is it about sex that has most people so worked up? I always thought it was the most overrated topic there was. People make too much of it, giving it importance it doesn’t really deserve. Sure, I might have wanted it at different points of time. I am not talking about a person’s need for it. That’s totally different from a person’s weird standpoint on it.
Somehow this one thing can imbibe everything from your integrity to your depravity. It’s so stupid and yet here I am stuck in it. Hmm. Maybe you are only stuck if you let yourself be thrown/ drawn into the mire. I unfortunately can be tugged into most shit rather easily.
I refuse to acknowledge. Crap. Me saying I refuse to acknowledge anything at this point is an oxymoron. Hehe. I am a moron as much as the person next to me. But, I would like to believe that I see some things differently. More sensibly, if you will. And I hate the fact that I have to muse about stuff that holds no relevance whatsoever to me. It’s good to get worked up about something from time to time, but I’d like to do such an exercise over something that I care about. My kids for example. But sex? Pbbbbft.
I guess we all want/ need it at some point of time or the other and we mistake this for more than what it is. Sex doesn’t rule my life anymore than the planets dictate your fate. But one can still get all tangled up in it. I hate that. I don’t wanna get worked up about trivia. Lol. Maybe I could even say that I don’t wanna work.
So much to figure out and it’s always like I do them against a time line. Maybe deadlines for me are better ‘cos I procrastinate like crazy otherwise; thinking about inconsequential matters that just fringe the decision I am going to make.
I doubt there is a set standard of how much sex is too much. I could be more sexually driven than some people and vice versa. Hmm. Why are we still talking about this?
One can’t write when one doesn’t know what bugs them. Same with discussions and arguments. What a wasteful use of space.
Somehow this one thing can imbibe everything from your integrity to your depravity. It’s so stupid and yet here I am stuck in it. Hmm. Maybe you are only stuck if you let yourself be thrown/ drawn into the mire. I unfortunately can be tugged into most shit rather easily.
I refuse to acknowledge. Crap. Me saying I refuse to acknowledge anything at this point is an oxymoron. Hehe. I am a moron as much as the person next to me. But, I would like to believe that I see some things differently. More sensibly, if you will. And I hate the fact that I have to muse about stuff that holds no relevance whatsoever to me. It’s good to get worked up about something from time to time, but I’d like to do such an exercise over something that I care about. My kids for example. But sex? Pbbbbft.
I guess we all want/ need it at some point of time or the other and we mistake this for more than what it is. Sex doesn’t rule my life anymore than the planets dictate your fate. But one can still get all tangled up in it. I hate that. I don’t wanna get worked up about trivia. Lol. Maybe I could even say that I don’t wanna work.
So much to figure out and it’s always like I do them against a time line. Maybe deadlines for me are better ‘cos I procrastinate like crazy otherwise; thinking about inconsequential matters that just fringe the decision I am going to make.
I doubt there is a set standard of how much sex is too much. I could be more sexually driven than some people and vice versa. Hmm. Why are we still talking about this?
One can’t write when one doesn’t know what bugs them. Same with discussions and arguments. What a wasteful use of space.
3 Comments:
i guess u are right. sex is the higly overated discussion ever. i dont understand wht one does in his/her own privacy shud be so much dwelved into. sex cud be considered as jus another emotional/physical need. something like the feeling of being in love on the emotional side or the feeling of hunger on the physical side. its a bodily need, tat we tend to respond to.
dhere are so many daily chores one does, but nobody talks abt that. why then is sex so overated? whts disturbing is the fact that ppl base relationships on sex. a happy sex life is a happy married life.
on the contrary my belief is tat a happy married life is a happy sex life. a gud sex life is a bonus that comes wid a gud love life.
u fall in love first. love leads sex not vice-versa. so its imp to have a gud love life and the rest wud fall in place.
......Regards,
SS
ahh :)
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